To LOVE or not to LOVE

The same question that Shakespeare asked before... however... this version is modernized...

In Shakespeare's time, love was not a choice, it was more like a coincidence, or even luxury, that their time did not have the option in...

It was a choice of life and death... you are either able to get who you love in your life, or you scarifies your life for whom you love and just live with pain... that will lead to slow torturing death....

The good old days have gone... LOVE, which used to be luxury, and a wish to everyone, is no longer as valuable and as important as it used to be... it is not treated with respect or holiness as before... It became a commodity, rather than a feeling... it became a bargain, rather than a sacrifice... it is now a trend and a mean rather than a life or a goal...

Now we have the choice to LOVE or not to LOVE... we can push the button of the emotions "remote control" and decide to love hehe... funny, isn't it???

Pure love that we used to see is now vanishing from our life... people are getting more materialistic, and don't have the time for it...

The question now that everyone asks is: do we really need LOVE??? does it affect us not to have it...???

Do we really have time to go through the hassle of the LOVE battle... try to win it or conquer our opponent??? do we really have an opponent in life other than "TIME"???

Let me tell you something... we had the luxury of having LOVE in our modern life... we have the option to choose, and life is much easier for us to access it... however, we are now lacking "time" to love, and to give love... we are ready to receive, but never give!!! What a shame!!!

We'd rather look for the person who loves us than the person we love... we do not want to waste our time... we'd rather save it for any other thing...

We do not give ourselves enough "time" to stop, take a breath, and check the world around us... look for pure love... we'd rather use the word "love" as a mean to a different goal... regardless of what we really feel.... it became a commodity stored in our brain, we just use it whenever it is needed... we use it as a weapon or as a tool... depending on the situation...

For me... I can tell you, (and from a life, hands-on experience) that LOVE for me is a sacred holistic state of mind... when you enter in this mood you are a sacred pure person... all the good things in you comes out on the surface of your deep iceberg character....

I simply love LOVE... love this state of mind that makes you tipsy while sober... that gets your wings out to be able to fly to the seventh sky of heaven.... that makes you happy for no reason except that you want to be happy... that you see everything in its positive side regardless of the agony you are going through...!!!

Isn't it an amazing state of mind??? that should be appreciated, respected, and offered unconditionally to the person you share this with???

I thank you for reading this... I hope I was able to cheer you up... and give you a different meaning of our modern life with "good old days" LOVE...

Have a wonderful lovely day...

Alexandria... best weather during this time

Helloo all how are you??

As you all know... I was out of job for a while, since I was recovering from my accident...:):)
I am now trying to enjoy my time as much as I can... so thought of going to Alexandria (Actually King Marriott) for a long weekend... starting on Wednesday and ending on Sunday...

The weather is amazing here... I just met my friends here... and went to see the horses in the stables of King's Ranch (A very nice social and horseback riding club in King Marriott)...

Really had an amazing and lovely time with friends...

I have friends here from different age groups... ... you will find their pictures here :):)

The best thing about our friendship, is that we try to find the common ground and interest between us, and we try not to put pressure on accepting each others' problems or non-common interests..

We share the related views and related activities... rather than someone pulling the other to his pole or side... which makes a perfect relation..

I think this is the truth about friendship... finding the common ground... the common interest... the common activities... and work around them... This way friendship stays longer...:):)

I would love to see your comments on this one... and your point of views...

Until the next post ...cheers and hope you have a wonderful weekend...:):)

Final results

At last, and after a very long 6 months of doing nothing but watching TV, the doctor was merciful enough to tell me that I am OK, and that I can walk with no crutches.. of course I still do not have the guts to do that, but at least I know that I can do it...:):):)

Now I am free to do many things.. I was imprisoned in my body, or in fact, in my leg hehe...
now I can walk on my prison and build a castle... or may be a fortress... depends on what I will do next in my life...

A hard lesson to take... however.. it gave me more confidence... and made me appreciate many things.. even the tiny ones that we take fore granted...

I now appreciate health, life quality and, above all that "time"... but in a different meaning.

We always hear that time is very important, we should not waste time, we should be multi-skilled to do many things in the same time, we should worry about the big picture rather than details... In fact I say the opposite now... time can be a healer, can give you more space to think, can give you enough of it to relax, and above all that, can give you confidence in tomorrow.

Time.. the factor that we cannot stop no matter what happens, does not work against us, in the opposite, it works with us if we use it the right way.. of course wasting time is no good... but also rushing things and running will make our hearts stop.. and damage our life.

I learned that I should give everything its time... and forget time miserliness... we will never be able to save some time aside, we will always be able to consume and spend time.. so at least we should spend it in a balanced way.. some time to be spent at work.. some time to be spent in leisure and fun, and some time for our soul...

This lesson is well absorbed now... I really should work on my life in a way that make me apply the learned lesson..

Now I am happy and I am trying to enjoy this happy moment (again back to time)... so I will take my time to enjoy it...

Will leave you now and will continue later...

Enjoy reading and please give me your comments.

Waiting forever

Imagine yourself waiting forever.. waiting for the result of an exam.. or a project you have presented to your boss.. or even an application for masters.. imagine the way you think and the anxiousness you are in when you wait for the result..

Guess what... I am in this mode since the past 6 months.. just checking every month what will be the result of my x-rays... as I told you before, I broke my leg and I am waiting for the healing..

Although it is taking much longer than I expected, it seems to me that I needed this long vacation.. It's been a long time since I had such a long vacation... for the past 11 years I was working like a dog.. may be the dog was taking a rest, but me .. "no way"..

This "must have" vacation made me think and re-think of my rythem of life. I was too fast to enjoy life.. and I am now re-considering my way of living and thinking of changing it.. or in other words, reshaping it to a better shape, rather than the too much work I used to exhaust myself in..

I am still on crutches and I am going tomorrow to the doctor.. when I talked to my sister I told her that it may be one of three answers: either I will be on one crutch rather than 2, or I will stay on both crutches for sometime, or will have to have a fourth operation..

I will see what the doctor will have to say and then inform you tomorrow of all the happenings.

Now, it is too late, and I am sleepy.. I will go to sleep now.. good night....